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We
all play roles that increase or reduce the odds of harm
associated with drinking before, during, and after parties. Recognize
the risks, take steps to manage them and know what to do if trouble
still occurs.
"How
can I throw a party that won't get closed down by police at 10pm?"
- Cal student, Fall '06
Risks
and Benefits of Parties and Drinking
Cal can be a pressure cooker academically, so the chance to relax, kick
back and have fun is essential. Parties can be great for meeting, understanding,
and learning from the amazing array of people in the campus community.
Alcohol may or may not be part of your parties.
There
are both benefits and risks of parties and of including alcohol. They
can be physical, social, emotional, legal, academic, financial, and
material. The benefits and risks can be felt at individual, group, organizational,
neighborhood, and wider community level. Use the risk/benefit
assessment form to consider the risks and benefits from a party
at which you were previously a host, guest, or neighbor. You can also
use the form to assess the risks and benefits for an upcoming party
you are planning or attending.
Manage
the Risks
As
a host, guest or neighbor, once you've assessed the risks for a party,
take steps to ensure that those risks are controlled. The following
tips address common party risks many of which are heightened when alcohol
is involved. Since harm associated with
college drinking is costly, the commitment and skills needed to
reduce it is as important at college parties as it is in licensed stores,
bars, and restaurants where server training is now required by law in
Berkeley.
If it sounds like too much trouble to assess, plan, and perhaps even
pay for risk management activities, then maybe you want to wait until
circumstances are more favorable. Being a friendly person or having
gone to lots of parties doesn't necessarily qualify you as a good host.
While you don't have to become a "professional", it's a myth
to think that good parties don't require ability, planning and practice.
Are
fun and safe parties rocket science? No. We can all do it. Check out
the following tips and suggestions.
Information
and Tips
Hosts
- Serve
food & non-alcoholic drinks. Not everyone drinks alcohol.
- Be
aware of how guests get to the party & back. Designate sober drivers
in advance. Know, suggest, or provide alternative transportation.
Don't let anyone leave alone.
- Don't
encourage drinking games. They make it easy to drink too much.
- Don't
serve alcohol to guests that are drunk. As the host, you are liable
if intoxicated guests get into legal trouble even after they leave
the party.
- Make
yourself easy to identify and locate, including by phone for neighbors.
- Be
ready to play the responsible role, i.e. to call for help if there
is a medical or safety problem that arises.
- Stay
sober to deal with problems, Deal with problems immediately, i.e.
uninvited guests - if they won't leave call the police for help.
- Talk
with neighbors many days ahead of time to exchange contact information
and work out a acceptable party logistics, i.e. timing, location,
noise, clean-up. Follow through on the agreements.
- Set
start and end times; Stick to plan; Stop serving alcohol and play
quiet music for last hour.
- Create
and control your guest list. Monitor the activities and conduct of
your guests.
- Recognize
the limits of your location. Try to allow for 15 sq. feet per guest
in the public areas of your house or apartment, i.e. not bathrooms
or bedrooms. Spread out, don't crowd everyone in one room. Nothing
will shut a party down faster than being overcrowded or over the permitted
occupancy.
- Don't
publicize the party in ways that increase likelihood of uninvited
guests or trouble-makers.
Guests
- Eat
before drinking & snack while you drink. Bring healthy snacks
to share with others. Alcohol on an empty stomach can have unpredictable
& unintended effects.
- Pace
yourself. Have no more than 1 alcoholic beverage per hour. Switch
between non-alcoholic & alcoholic beverages.
- Don't
combine alcohol & other drugs. It can lead unexpected & dangerous
effects.
- Plan
your getaway. Know how, when & with whom you will leave. And bring
cash for a cab, just in case.
- Don't
encourage or force anyone to drink.
- Respect
the hosts' guest list and control activities. Don't invite others
or let them in through uncontrolled entry points.
- Make
you own drink & keep it in sight. Otherwise you'll have no idea
what is in it. Date rape drugs are real and can lead to unwanted sex
or sexual assault.
- Stick
to your limit & look out for each other. Check on your friends
throughout the night. This can decrease risk of DUI, injury, assault,
& rape.
- When
the party is over, leave gracefully.
- Notice
and react to changes in the party environment. If there are signs
that the party is getting out of control, i.e. majority are drunk,
verbal or physical or sexual aggression or harassment going on, overcrowding
and spilling outside the residence, lot's of unknown guests, it is
time to leave. It may be appropriate to call and notify police before
serious harm occurs.
Neighbors
- Whether
a short or long term resident, make an effort to build relationships,
communication and respect with neighbors. There is an amazing array
of interesting people among us. Exchange contact information.
- Communicate
needs and expectations about work, sleep, study and play. Be ready
to compromise for the good of the whole sometimes. Also be ready to
call for help if other communications don't work.
- Talk
with neighbors in advance of parties to exchange contact information
and work out a acceptable party logistics, i.e. activities, location,
noise, start and end time, clean-up. Follow through on the agreements.
Check in afterwards about what worked and what didn't.
- Keep
the noise level down. Keep the party inside the residence. Don't let
guests hang out in front of your house, especially after 10pm when
Berkeley's "quiet hours" begin.
- If
neighbors contact you about noise, respect their interests and appreciate
that they are talking with you directly rather than calling the police.
- Clean
up trash on your property and surrounding areas as soon a possible.
Check with your neighbors the next day to see if they had any problems.
Alcohol
- Designate
servers and train them. No self-serve alcohol.
- Create
and maintain a system for checking age identification and minimizing
underage drinking
Control access to and quantity of alcohol to guests.
- Don't
serve intoxicated persons.
- Don't
encourage drinking games. They make it easy to drink too much. Play
social games (it sounds corny, but if relaxing, hanging out with friends,
and meeting new people is the benefit you're after, life is not better
when you or your friends are drunk, vomiting, passed out, or doing
things they later regret).
- Serve
plenty of food & non-alcoholic drinks. Not everyone drinks alcohol.
- Pace
yourself. Have no more than 1 alcoholic beverage per hour. Switch
between non-alcoholic & alcoholic beverages.
- Don't
combine alcohol & other drugs. It can lead unexpected & dangerous
effects.
- Regardless
of cup size, serve standard drink quantities to help people pace themselves.
- Know
the signs of alcohol toxicity and what to
do.
- Don't
charge admission fees. Risk increases as cash held at door increases.
You'll also need a business license and, if serving alcohol, a permit
to sell alcohol. Serve plenty of food. Ask guests to bring something
to share.
Food
- Party
Food 101: List of Finger Foods for Parties
-
Cheese cubes or slices and various types of crackers
- Cut
up apples and caramel sauce to dip in
- Vegetables
such as carrots, raw broccoli and cauliflower, and celery along
with a ranch dip
- Chips
and salsa or guacamole (Guacamole can either be store bought or
home with numerous different recipes.)
- Here
is one simple recipe: Combine 1 medium ripe avocado (peeled
and mashed), 1 tablespoon salsa, 1 clove garlic (peeled),
and ¼ teaspoon of salt. Amounts can be varied due to
taste preference and add lime or lemon after combining in
order to keep it fresh.
- Can
also make a bean dip to go along with the chips that can combine
beans, cheese, sour cream, and guacamole.
- Mixture
of shelled nuts such as walnuts, almonds, cashews, peanuts, etc.
(Not sure whether this is good or not since many people are allergic
to nuts.)
- Fruit
salad or just a platter with fruit that is easy to pick up.
- Pineapple,
strawberries, grapes, etc. can be picked up with toothpicks so
that is an easy way for people to eat it.
- Cookie
platter, either store bought or homemade.
- Small,
bite size sandwiches. (Just make a regular size sandwich and then
cut it into four pieces and put a toothpick through the middle
so it will stay together for easy pick-up.)
- Make
a variety of types
turkey, ham, cheese, what ever is
easiest.
-
Shrimp and cocktail dipping sauce
- Cut
up baguette and bruscetta to put on top.
- Large
stores such as Costco or Smart and Final have a huge variety of
party foods that they keep in the frozen food section and they
are all pretty easy to serve. The food is usually precooked and
just needs to be heated up in the oven.
- Mini
quiche
- Vegetable
or egg rolls
- Chicken
skewers with peanut or teriyaki sauce
- Mini
pizza bites
- Pigs
in a blanket: These are little mini hotdogs that are rolled
in a type of dough and again you just stick them in the oven
and they are good to go
-
Mini quesadillas
- Mozzarella
cheese sticks with marinara sauce.
Noise
- Keep
the noise level down, especially after 10pm when Berkeley's "quiet
hours" begin.
- Keep
the party inside the residence and don't let guests hang out in front
of your house.
- If
neighbors contact you about noise, respect their interests and appreciate
that they are talking with you directly rather than calling the police.
- If
there is a noise complaint and the police arrive and corroborate it,
you'll be asked to break up the party. Do so as quickly and safely
as possible. Despite serving a city of 100,000, City of Berkeley Police
estimate that 90% of the noise complaints it receives are from the
area near campus. Depending on all the circumstances, you may also
receive a Second Response Ordinance
warning or fine up to $2500.
Setting
- The
setting for a party can greatly impact its benefits and risks. Recognize
the setting elements that you can and cannot change and adjust your
plans accordingly.
- Your
neighbors, block and neighborhood's interest in you and tolerance
for parties and the associated noise, traffic, etc.
- The
past history of the location - previous harm, neighbor complaints,
police involvement are factors that should influence hosts and guests.
- Fraternity
houses and private off campus houses and apartments have been demonstrated
as settings with greatest risk of harm associated with college drinking.
- Fire
alarms, sprinklers, security and other building systems in working
condition.
- Places
or methods for locking up or securing resident and/or guest valuables,
i.e. laptops, money, jewelry.
- Risks
are greater for evening and weekend parties; risk increases after
8pm and again after midnight.
- Can
people walk or use public transportation to come and go? Must they
drive?
- Is
drinking the primary focus of activity or are there plenty of other
activities that engage and bring people together?
If
Need or Trouble Arises
Program
these numbers into your phone before the party starts.
Police
- Emergency
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From a land line: 911.
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From a cell phone:
- Berkeley
Police 510.981.5911
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UC Police: 510.642.3333
- Non-Emergency
-
Berkeley Police 510.981.5900
-
UC Berkeley Police 510.642.6760
Transportation
Alcohol
Overdose
An alcohol overdose can lead to irreversible brain damage or even death.
Be aware of the following symptoms of alcohol overdose. If you see someone
displaying any of these symptoms, call emergency services immediately!
Student safety and health is the priority. Do not delay calling for
help because you are worried about getting in trouble given the setting
or activities. The consequences will be worse if you risk a life.
Knowing
these signs and taking these steps can save a life:
- Person
is passed out - semi-conscious, unconscious, or cannot be awakened.
- Slurred,
incoherent speech.
- Cold,
clammy, pale or bluish skin.
- Breathing
is slow or irregular - less than 10-12 times per minute or 10 seconds
or more between breaths.
- Excessive
vomiting or vomiting while sleeping or passed out.
- Call
emergency services immediately if any of these symptoms are evident.
Wait for emergency personnel to come to you. Don't drive someone with
alcohol poisoning or substance overdose to the hospital.
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